There -is- no -one- answer
I don't believe in any one sentient all powerful being. I'm a deeply religious person but not in any way in a traditional sense. I could issue forth reams of discussion on that matter but it's one that's better left to a different discussion that the one immediately at hand.
I've got a bumper sticker on my car that proclaims
I do not believe that anyone else has the right to decide either of these things for another person
"I'M A LIBERAL! It's okay if you're not".
The same basic attitude applies for me here as well. The way -I- think and feel should not apply to anyone else. It's a deeply -personal- decision to be made only by the person directly affected or by a person designated beforehand -by- that person to do so.
I -do- feel that we should all be allowed to -make- that decision when the time comes for that decision to be made.
Say what you mean. Mean what you say. But don't say it mean.