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coffeegyrl
12-22-2009, 05:21 PM
I am having a minor surgery tomorrow (removal of cysts in my left upper arm and left leg) and I am freaking out. They told me not to take my anti-inflammatory meds for a week prior to the procedure. I called the surgery resident and told him that I wouldn't be able to walk if I didn't take them, and he said just stop them the day before. Today I am in pain and crabby because of it. I never realized how much they helped until being off of them for not even a day! As far as I know, I'm only having local anesthesia, so my anxiety is not going away until it is over.

Perhaps if I was going to an actual hospital it would be different. I have no insurance, so I am going to the clinic that the City of St. Louis runs. The surgeon is a surgical resident from Washington University Medical School, but I've never even met her.

I have been going to the surgery clinic for about 7 months for another problem (too delicate to discuss) and still have an open wound from that. I got myself into the wound care center at Barnes-Jewish Hospital (applied for financial aid, waited a long time, etc.) and the nurse practitioner there told me last week that I may need to have a big surgery to re-excise the area before it will heal. I will be examined by their surgeon on Jan. 4. After that, I will probably be referred back to the clinic. For months I have suspected that the small office procedure I had in June was not adequate to treat this problem.

I have little to no confidence in the attending physician at the surgery clinic. He is arrogant and dismissive. He acts like he just met me every time I see him. He has given me multiple diagnoses that don't quite fit. At least he doesn't do the surgery, the residents do. Some of the residents I have seen are really good, but they rotate in and out every two months. And when you need a big surgery they do send you to Barnes-Jewish Hosptial where I am confident that there is good care.

If I had health insurance I wouldn't be in this situation with the clinic. I could just go to another surgeon that I trust. At this point I am uninsurable. No insurance company will take me. And if they would, the premium would cost more that I earn in a month. I make too much money to get Medicaid. I'm just screwed. At the rate the folks in DC are working on healthcare, I will be uninsured until I am eligible for Medicare. Even if they changed the eligibility age to 55, that's still over two years away.

Oh, and did I mention that I have a hugely enlarged thyroid that they want to remove? That is another story altogether.

Send those vibes, my friends. I really need them right now.
thanks,
Sally

Amy in Vermont
12-22-2009, 05:28 PM
Aw... Sally...

...sometimes life just sucks, ya know!

Rudie Vibes comeing from VT for this procedure, and in general.

dragonlady
12-22-2009, 05:38 PM
On the way from us down Virginia way...good luck tomorrow Sally...

-di

Jim in Chattanooga, TN
12-22-2009, 05:52 PM
Prayers heading your way Sally...

KarenSews2
12-22-2009, 06:13 PM
All kinds of Rudie vibes heading westward to you, Sally! Hope all goes well tomorrow.

Cardiffgal
12-22-2009, 07:29 PM
Sending good wishes and prayers from Cardiff, Ca.

Elliott
12-22-2009, 08:21 PM
My vibes are on the way too.... Let us know soonest how you are. Best, E

dreamchaser728
12-22-2009, 08:48 PM
Rudie vibes from KC.

Keep us updated!

Mimi
12-23-2009, 03:49 AM
Healing vibes coming your way from Germany!

Mimi

Dee
12-23-2009, 04:27 AM
I have little to no confidence in the attending physician at the surgery clinic. He is arrogant and dismissive. He acts like he just met me every time I see him. He has given me multiple diagnoses that don't quite fit. At least he doesn't do the surgery, the residents do. Some of the residents I have seen are really good, but they rotate in and out every two months. And when you need a big surgery they do send you to Barnes-Jewish Hosptial where I am confident that there is good care.

Well thank goodness for that! I hope everything goes well today Sallly.

Marcia Drummergal
12-23-2009, 07:45 AM
Sally....sending all of the Rudie Vibes I can muster from Cincinnati west across I-70!

Marcia

Beth
12-23-2009, 01:37 PM
Stay in touch through all this. Sounds like you are doing the best you can with some lousy circumstances...

coffeegyrl
12-24-2009, 11:24 PM
We arrived at 11 am and they finally took me into the OR at 5 pm. Apparently the surgeon had to go over to the hospital for something before she could do my case. The surgery went well and the folks at the surgery center were wonderful. The surgeon is board certified and very good. Only local anesthesia, so no drug hangover. Apparently these things were not cysts, but some type of mass. I had a good look at them in the jars and they were big! They left drains in both wounds because there was infection. Will return to the surgery clinic next week for drain removal and the following week for suture removal.

Went to my sister's house for the family holiday thing this evening and now I am wiped out. I'm going to bed and sleep for a long time!

Thank you to everyone for your support.

PattiP
12-24-2009, 11:41 PM
This is good news. Sleep tonight princess and you shall
awake as Queen.

Continued healing to you, pattip

[you are in my heart]

TiminOhio
12-25-2009, 07:47 AM
coffeegirl,
I know in my heart that your female Surgeon will be like Meg Ryan in City of Angels....one of my favorite movies. The music soundtrack is a must own. If you never watched the movie check it out...and eat a delicious peach for me!
Positive here in Ohio that everything will be OK. Learn to embrace the pain - at least for a day---because it means you are still kick'n. After this surgery is over do an honest review/appraisal/take stock of/etc. of your diet. Keep a small journal and write down whatever you eat - when, how much etc. then after two weeks look at it with a dietician, etc.
All should go well,
TiminOhio

Agnes
12-25-2009, 09:57 AM
Hang in there, Sally. Rudievibes by the bucket to you!

Roady
12-25-2009, 10:42 AM
Thinking of you Sally and hope you're on the mend! May your insurance woes be a thing of the past with this new health care bill. Though that remains to be seen. If you have group health insurance where you work HIPAA prevents denial of coverage and there are time limits on preexisting coverage exclusion.

Wishing you good health in 2010.

Barb

Elliott
12-25-2009, 10:45 AM
I'm so happy to hear that things went well. Now, take care and milk it for all it's worth! Best, E

Sara
12-25-2009, 12:20 PM
Healing Rudie vibes to you, Sally. It'll only get better from here.

I hear you about the healthcare mess in this country. Hoping the latest changes can be implemented ASAP.

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Bat
12-25-2009, 01:24 PM
Glad surgery went well, Sally...wishing you a Merry Christmas recovery!
Bat

dragonlady
12-25-2009, 02:10 PM
Glad to hear the suregery went well....get well soon!

-di

Ginny
12-25-2009, 03:56 PM
Get well soon and Merry Christmas!

hoops
12-25-2009, 08:14 PM
Glad that surgery is over Sara. rest up from that. i'm glad you got to spend time with your family for the holiday. Now give yourself a gift and get well!
peace
hoops

Sara
12-25-2009, 09:37 PM
Glad that surgery is over Sara. rest up from that. i'm glad you got to spend time with your family for the holiday. Now give yourself a gift and get well!
peace
hoops
Dear, dear hoops,
Your good wishes haven't gone unnoticed, bless your heart! But let's not confuse the good folks here. It's Sally that had the recent surgery. I'm Sara! Got it? ;)

Rickster
12-26-2009, 07:57 AM
Sally, Glad the surgery went well! Hope you will be on the mend swiftly! Strong rudie vibes going out to you!

Dar
12-26-2009, 12:29 PM
Hi Sally!
I'm glad to hear the surgery went well!
Hope you're all healed up soon!

Dee
12-26-2009, 03:55 PM
The surgery went well and the folks at the surgery center were wonderful. The surgeon is board certified and very good. Only local anesthesia, so no drug hangover.

I am glad to hear that Sally! Rest up now, ya hear?

Kath of the Guitar
12-26-2009, 04:08 PM
Sending {{Healing}} Vibes out to ya Sally, from Fla. ;)

marjan
12-26-2009, 06:20 PM
Glad that everyting went well Sally! Wishing you a speedy recovery

hoops
12-26-2009, 06:32 PM
I'm sorry Sally, I did mean Sally, I keep doing this to you and Sara. I don't know why. Forgive me both of you. get well now Sally
peace
hoops

TiminOhio
12-26-2009, 06:34 PM
To anyone feeling alone over the holidays who has access to this Forum - think of the Rudies & Janis as your extended family...and the forum is always a place you can hang out...and you can always play Janis Ian Cds or watch her DVDs to feel better too.
We love you,
Peace...TiminOhio
P.S. And you can always go to the Zoo and play the "This or That" game or "Your So Banned' game. Heck, even I'm getting the hang of it.