Request for double vibes

[Amy in Vermont]

Tonitght I am asking you all to put out a double set.

Dad is in hospital again. Feeling very weak, respiratory infection on top of his longstanding issues. He was due for anopther transfusion, so they are doing that tonite.

His social worker mentioned hospice today, and the hospital called me to confirm that his is DNR, should something go wrong.

Also in hospital tonight is my 13 year old Standard Schnauzer, Hilary (aka BOO). She has been suffering from "bowel issues" for several days, and is dehydrated and depressed. Given her age, they are doing a full work up.. blood, x-rays, etc.

In theory, bith dad and Boo should be home tomorrow, but give that they are both quite elderly, I am just a little stressed out right now.

So since we know Rudie vibes are very effective, I am asking you all to work your magic for me once again.

[GodSistah]

Magical Rudie Vibes headed your way from California.
I will light a candle for them both when I get home from work.
(((Hugz))) to you.

[Dar]

You got 'em Amy!!

[razal]

Kind thoughts and caring wishes, Amy

[Mary6906]

<<HUGS>> and my strongest Rudie vibes headed your way.

[JoanM]

on the way Amy, jm

[BeckyVA]

Amy,
I am sending my prayers as requested. I pray that you will be comforted that your friends here are caring and praying for you and your family. Special prayers for your Father and for "Boo". Becky

[dreamchaser728]

Vibes from KC.

Hugs,

[hoops]

Rudie vibes, positive thoughts and prayers to your dad and to boo and to you Amy. breathe
peace
hoops

[Puppy lover]

Amy, positive and healing vibes coming from New York for your dear dad and for Boo. Please keep us posted.

[coffeegyrl]

Sending the best vibes for your dad and your dog (and you too!)

[Agnes]

RV from Holland on their way! Take care of yourself too, Amy.

[lucille]

Rudie vibes to you all from DU

[Elliott]

LA is on it too... best to all. Love,
e

[angelgirl]

Rudievibes and angel heartlinks on their way.

Huge love to you, your Dad and Boo.

O x

[Dee]

(((HUGS))) and prayers for you and dad and Hilary, Amy.

[Cardiffgal]

Sending you best wishes and prayers for you and your family.

[PattiP]

Oh you sweet girl, I am directing Radiant Energies/Rudie Vibes to
you, your father and Boo. Keep us posted and don't forget to breathe
in and out for stress release.

You are in my heart, pattip

[Roady]

Rudie vibes headed to Cambridge and Vermont! Will keep your Dad and boo in my thoughts and prayers. As well as you my friend.

Barb

[marjan]

Sending you Rudie Vibes Amy!

[Kath of the Guitar]

Hi Amy, sending out the Rudie vibes to all of you!
I hope today's a better day!
{{HUGS}} from Fla.

[Ginny]

Amy, sending Rudie vibes and prayers for your Dad, Boo, and yourself also.

:)

[Cardiffgal]

Amy,

Thinking about you, your Dad and your family today. Sending you best wishes.

[dragonlady]

Winging their way from VA...

-di and kat

[TwinLori]

Amy - Sending lots of Rudie Vibes and prayers for you and your family (both your father and your dog).

[Amy in Vermont]

Thank you all.

Dad is expected to be released from hospital tomorrow. There are concerns about both his physical health and his cognitive state. I am planning on going down this week sometime to see him and try to talk to all the caregivers. He refuses to go to re-hab and is protesting having someone watching him 24/7.

Boo is home, but not doing all that well. I am going to take her back to the vet tomorrow. She is still pooping liquid, hardly eating or drinking and just sleeping, day and night. I fear her days are numbered.

I am trying to keep it together, but slowly crumbling.....

[leslie]

Amy, not only much RV being beamed your way but hugs as well. Such a hard time.

Leslie

[Eva]

Double vibes are on their way to you. Take care.

Eva

[hoops]

extra rudie vibes Amy
peace
hoops

[Cardiffgal]

Safe travels Amy and best wishes for your Dad.

[Marcia Drummergal]

Double vibes....or that should be quadruple vibes from us in Cincinnati.

Marcia and Bat

[Amy in Vermont]

Dad is home from the hospital, with an aide to keep an eye on him 24/7. He initially tried to get them to keep him until I could get down there, but they were able to convince him that he would be better off at home. The doctor has forbidden him to drive until further notice (translate that to ever... we are going to try to get him to give up his keys).

Boo is no better and is going up to the big city of Burlington for an ultrasound first thing in the morning. The results of that will determine my next step, but I can tell you that unless its something very simple that can easily be treated medically, the prospects are not good, as I will not put her through surgery or any long term discomfort.

I will be headed for Cambridge either late tomorrow or first thing Wednesday to spend a few days with dad and meet with his care givers to evaluate options for his future care.

This all sucks, but I am trying very hard to count my blessings and stay above the surface.

Thank you all for your support....it means the world to me.

[Cardiffgal]

Oh geez Amy I am so sorry to learn of some of your updates. One or the other situation might be manageable but both at once, have mercy.

Sending you good wishes and hoping you have some great friends that are close by to help you hang on in there. Wish I could be one of them, sending you best wishes from the outside of the USA.

[Dee]

No words, just big (((HUGS))) for you, Amy.

[hoops]

More (((hugs))) for Amy
peace
hoops

[Amy in Vermont]

The ultra sound showed raging pancreatitis, which for what ever reason did not evidence itself in her blood work. The option was for hospitalization with supportive medical treatment, possibly requiring surgery later on, all at a cost of thousands of dollars, with no assurance of sucess, or euthanasia.

My gut feeling was that she had been through enough pain, and had lead a wonderful and happy life, and was ready to take her eternal nap.

Rest in Peace, Boo.

http://www.amyehoffman.net/Assets/Images/Dogs/boo in bed 8-8-09.gif
Streeter Brook Hilary
August 17, 1996 - December 15, 2009

[Ginny]

Amy, I am so sorry about Boo. RIP Boo.

[PattiP]

Oh Amy, thank you for sharing Boo with us and caring so very well for her.
Is there anything better than to be a true companion to our 4 footed
friends?

My Best to your Father, you and Boo; you are in my heart. PattiP

[Dee]

My condolences on the difficult loss of your companion, Amy. :(

[Chet]

Dear Amy

You've done your best for Boo all these years, and you did your best for her in her last days - always filled with love and care.

She will always be in your heart.

RIP, dear sweet Boo.

Chet

[lucille]

So sorry Amy. As you know, I am a dog lover and the loss of Boo brings tears to my eyes. Don't you wish that our pets could live their lives along with ours. But to get over ten years is always great. You did the right thing as Boo was near the end of her natural life anyway. Emmy Lou, Charlie and I send our love and condolences.

[hoops]

Boo, may you rest in peace and Amy, more hugs, and my condolences to you. Im so sorry you lost your best friend
peace
hoops

[Roady]

Amy, I'm so sorry to hear you lost Boo. I've seen too many dogs die from pancreatitis-it's a tough one to beat. She was a beautiful girl. I just know if I had met her, she would be included amongst my special canine friends.

I'll be in Boston the next 3 days so give a call or PM if you have time for quick get together. Continued prayers and rudie vibes for your Dad.

Love and hugs,

Barb

[JoanM]

Amy I am so sad for you yet know that you did the right thing. I'm sure Boo has already met Jazz and Dali, our first two dobes and they're showing her all the cool places to run free and chase the wind.


"Heaven goes by favor; if it went by merit, you would stay out and your dog would go in."~Mark Twain


"The dog is a gentleman; I hope to go to his heaven, not man's." ~Mark Twain

[coffeegyrl]

Amy, my sincere sympathy on the loss of your buddy Boo. Our animals are the best companions in the world.

Still sending Rudie Vibes for you and your dad.

[Cardiffgal]

Oh Amy, I am so so sorry for the loss of your dear girl Boo. I think Chet said it best, you did well by her, you loved her enough to let her go. Run Boo, Run

[Peanut]

So sorry to hear about Boo, Amy. Michelle and I send our thoughts and prayers.

Rachel

[Ty_Riann]

Amy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Praises to you for loving your Boo enough to release the soul from a painful body. This decision is always difficult and is one I may face in the months to come for my McKenzie. Much love and warm Adirondack hugs to you!

[Bat]

It's always just about the toughest call to make, to let a friend go...but when there's no alternative, we do what we must. Hugging you, Amy.
Bat

[RedjackRyan]

Sorry for your loss Amy, Rudie vibes heading your way.

[Eva]

Amy, I'm so sorry :( Sorry that you had to take this tough decision. And sorry that Boo is not with you anymore. This must be very hard for you. Take care Amy.

Eva

[Amy in Vermont]

You guys are the best.

I am now in my dad's living room. He is resting in bed, which is pretty much all he does/can do right now. I have no idea what the prognosis is, but I am guessing he may regain some strength and coordination, but may also need to have an aide present 24/7 for a while. He is also clearly not his old self mentally, seeming a bit foggy and confused.

It sucks to see him this way and the caretaker part of me wants to fix it, but I know I cannot.

::::::::::sigh:::::::::

[Beth]

Wow, Amy, I feel sad for you. My sympathy for you losing Boo. It is devastating to lose a family member. I am sending good thoughts to you and your dad.

[Roady]

Both you and your Dad are in my thoughts Amy. Let me know if there's any thing I can do to lend a helping hand or just a shoulder to lean on.

Barb

[JoanM]

Prayers for you and your Dad Amy. Remember to take care of yourself first so you can help him. jm

[Amy in Vermont]

I am home in Vermont, having left a day early to beat the storm. Picked up my dear lonesome Tay from the kennel at 8 sharp this morning. She keeps going outside and looking for Boo, then coming in to cuddle up to me.

As of yesterday, dad was doing a bit better. It is, however clear that his memory has begun to wane and his is occaisionally somewhat confused. The doctors feel that basically its time for palliative hospice care, and have made it clear that he should NOT drive anymore unless a miracle occurs. He currently has an aide present 24/7, but will probably be able to back that off to night time only very soon.

I am hoping to go back down in a week or so and try to get him to give me his keys....

[hoops]

Amy,
I'm glad you dad is feeling a bit better. I'm sorry that things don't look better. I pray that you have a good holiday with him. rudie vibes still coming
peace
hoops

[BeckyVA]

Amy, so very sorry about Boo.
You and your Dad remain in my prayers.
Hang in there.
Becky

[Kath of the Guitar]

So sorry about Boo Amy...But I'm happy to hear the good news on dad.
Get some rest, take a break!!
KTG

[Elliott]

That's right, take a break and use deep breathing to relax.... You're getting sleepy.... Your eyelids are getting hard to open.... count down from ten as you walk down a safe, but dimly lit, staircase. When you reach the last step, yu................................................ .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................

Well, it works for me. Best Rudi Vibes from LA

Love, E

[hoops]

elliott, down the stairs???? sounds like it would hurt
peace
hoops