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Oak Kitten
08-08-2008, 06:53 PM
This article is from the Washington Post:


Sorry We Asked, Sorry You Told
By Dana Milbank
Thursday, July 24, 2008; A03


Don't ask, don't tell. And, whatever you do, don't ask Elaine Donnelly to tell you what she thinks about gays in the military.

The House Armed Services personnel subcommittee made just such a miscalculation yesterday. Holding the first hearing in 15 years on the "don't ask, don't tell" policy, lawmakers invited a quartet of veterans to testify on the subject and also extended an invitation to Donnelly, who has been working for years to protect our fighting forces from the malign influence of women.

Donnelly treated the panel to an extraordinary exhibition of rage. She warned of "transgenders in the military." She warned that lesbians would take pictures of people in the shower. She spoke ominously of gays spreading "HIV positivity" through the ranks.

"We're talking about real consequences for real people," Donnelly proclaimed. Her written statement added warnings about "inappropriate passive/aggressive actions common in the homosexual community," the prospects of "forcible sodomy" and "exotic forms of sexual expression," and the case of "a group of black lesbians who decided to gang-assault" a fellow soldier.

At the witness table with Donnelly, retired Navy Capt. Joan Darrah, a lesbian, rolled her eyes in disbelief. Retired Marine Staff Sgt. Eric Alva, a gay man who was wounded in Iraq, looked as if he would explode.

Inadvertently, Donnelly achieved the opposite of her intended effect. Though there's no expectation that Congress will repeal "don't ask, don't tell" and allow gays to serve openly in the military, the display had the effect of increasing bipartisan sympathy for the cause.

Rep. Vic Snyder (D-Ark.) labeled her statement "just bonkers" and "dumb," and he called her claims about an HIV menace "inappropriate." Said Snyder: "By this analysis . . . we ought to recruit only lesbians for the military, because they have the lowest incidence of HIV in the country."

Rep. Patrick Murphy (D-Pa.), a veteran of the war in Iraq, called Donnelly's words "an insult to me and many of the soldiers" by saying they "aren't professional enough to serve openly with gay troops while successfully completing their military mission."

Retorted Donnelly: "What would you say to Cynthia Yost, the woman on a training exercise assaulted by a group of lesbians?"

Rep. Chris Shays (R-Conn.) pointed a finger at Darrah and glared at Donnelly. "Would you please tell me, Miss Donnelly, why I should give one twit about this woman's sexual orientation, when it didn't interfere one bit with her service?"
Donnelly said something about "forced intimacy."
Shays cut her off. "You're saying she has no right to serve her country because she happens to have a different sexual orientation than you."

Donnelly returned to the case of "Cynthia Yost . . . assaulted by a group of lesbians." She neglected to mention that the incident was alleged to have occurred in 1974.

It was tempting to think that Donnelly had been chosen by Democrats to sabotage the case against open military service for homosexuals. But Republicans had consented to the witness panel, which also included retired Army Maj. Gen. Vance Coleman, a black man who likened the current policy to racial segregation in the military, and retired Army Sgt. Maj. Brian Jones, who argued almost as passionately as Donnelly for the need to keep the military straight.

The subcommittee chairwoman, Susan Davis (D-Calif.), asked for the "utmost respect," and John McHugh (N.Y.), the ranking Republican, urged a "civil discussion." That held up as Coleman spoke of one of the openly gay soldiers who served with him in Korea, Darrah spoke of the "constant fear of being outed and fired," and Alva spoke of his lost leg and how he "nearly died to secure rights for others that I myself was not free to enjoy."

Then came Donnelly, severe in a black jacket with a flag pin on her lapel as she attacked the "San Francisco left who want to impose their agenda on the military." She spoke of the "devastating" effect gay soldiers would have on the military and said "people who do have religious convictions" would be driven out of the military by the "sexualized atmosphere."
"We are not talking about a Hollywood role here," Donnelly lectured the lawmakers.

Donnelly was followed by Jones, a tough-talking businessman who suggested that the military's tradition of "selfless service" would be undermined by gay men and lesbians. "In the military environment, team cohesion, morale and esprit de corps is a matter of life and death," he said. His written statement spelled it "esprit decor"; it also warned of "a band of lesbians that harassed new females," and noted his own military experience when "the only way to keep from freezing at night was to get as close as possible for body heat -- which means skin to skin."

But it was Donnelly, founder and president of the Center for Military Readiness, who amused lawmakers the most. Snyder asked Darrah about Donnelly's reference to "passive-aggressive actions common in the homosexual community," saying, "I'm almost tempted to ask you to demonstrate."

Darrah was stumped. "Like a woman who is stared at, her breasts are stared at," Donnelly explained. She further explained the "absolutely devastating" effect of homosexuals "introducing erotic factors" and made a comparison to Sen. Larry Craig's adventure at the Minneapolis airport. She said admitting gays to the military would be "forced cohabitation" and a policy of "relax and enjoy it."

Murphy puffed his cheeks with air to calm himself. Rep. Ellen Tauscher (D-Calif.) said she was "shocked." Rep. Carol Shea-Porter (D-N.H.) said she was "embarrassed." Shays said it was "scurrilous" of Donnelly to talk about the menace of homosexual misconduct, because it would be punished the same way the military punishes heterosexual misconduct.
Shays, his voice rising with Yankee indignation, continued to lecture Donnelly: "I think the 'don't ask, don't tell' policy is unpatriotic. I think it's counterproductive. In fact, I think it is absolutely cruel."

Donnelly said something about her respect for the service of gay veterans. "How do you respect their service?" Shays demanded. "You want them out."

Donnelly seemed to have unified the lawmakers -- against her. The next questioner was Rep. Joe Sestak (D-Pa.), a retired Navy vice admiral. "I couldn't ask it better than you did," he told Shays.



It gets better. Check out this segment on “The Daily Show.”

http://www.thedailyshow.com/video/index.jhtml?videoId=177585&title=dont-ask,-dont-tell-hearing

Oak

lucille
08-08-2008, 10:36 PM
"Me thinks she doth protest too much"

DaveM
08-09-2008, 12:26 AM
Not a word, strangely, about the number of heterosexual female military personnel who have been harrassed, humiliated, and outright attacked/raped by heterosexual male military personnel. Not to mention what someone who is even rumored to be gay has to deal with.

Is it possible that this woman is a Phelps family member in disguise?

Dee
08-09-2008, 04:39 AM
I suspect she is a cousin of Sally Kearns. Remember that fine example of stupidity on parade? Is it really 2008? Sometimes I wonder . . .

hoops
08-09-2008, 07:21 AM
how did this woman make it into politics...forget i said that, what was i thinking
peace
hoops

aabram
08-09-2008, 07:53 AM
Pride and Prejudice at it's WORST

Bat
08-09-2008, 08:01 AM
Are we sure she isn't a cousin of the Phelps' clan?? What an ass!

Oak Kitten
08-09-2008, 08:03 AM
Elaine Donnelly is an acolyte of Phyllis Schlafly. Her organization, "The Center for Military Readiness," is essentially a one-woman operation. The last time I checked, when I was writing about it in my dissertation, CMR's Board of Advisors was primarily comprised of dead senior naval officers from the Pleistocene era, the ones that were still alive retired from the Navy long before women began serving in any appreciable numbers with the fleet, which began around 1987.

Donnelly is wired in with a number of "Christian right" organizations, which is how I suspect she gets the funding to keep her pathetic show on the road. She was appointed to the Defense Advisory Committee on Women in the Services during the Reagan Administration, a sop by the Republicans to the misogynist and homophobic elements of the Right. In that position, she did everything she could to roll back any progress that women had made in integrating into the military. Fortunately, she was as feckless in that position as she has been in every other effort she has engaged in since.

Bush I appointed her to the Presidential Advisory Commission on Women in the Armed Forces in the early 1990s, where she and a few other right-wing ringers tried desperately to prevent women from being assigned to combat aviation and surface warfare billets, once again, without success. By the way, it was Senator John McCain who proposed the establishment of that commission in an effort to derail further integration efforts.

Having been a complete failure at rolling back the tide of progress on the integration of women into the military, the only issue Donnelly has left is promoting homophobia, which incidentally, has traditionally been used as a tool to purge women, straight and gay, from the military. I guess I must be really obtuse, because in my 31 years in uniform, I have never encountered any of these "predatory lesbians" that apparently are running amok in the ranks.

Joan Darrah, the retired Navy captain mentioned as one of the withnesses at the hearing, is an acquaintance of mine. She now serves on the board of the Servicemember's Legal Defense Fund. I sent her an email congratulating her on her restraint at not slapping Donnelly's head off, which is what I would have done. I suppose that is really not necessary, every time Donnelly opens her mouth in public, she makes such an unmitigated ass of herself that she is the most effective weapon at undermining her own agenda. Whatever will she do if we get a Democratic Administration that fullfills the pledge to do away with Don't Ask, Don't Tell?

Oak

Bat
08-09-2008, 08:24 AM
Thanks for the background, Oak...I think the next administration should send her as ambassador to Antarctica where she could pound some sense into those horrid gay penguins!!:eek:

http://www.emperor-penguin.com/gay-penguins.html

Dee
08-09-2008, 08:34 AM
:p Food one Bat. Anywhere far away from thinking human beings would be great!

Mary6906
08-09-2008, 08:46 AM
Thanks for the background, Oak...I think the next administration should send her as ambassador to Antarctica where she could pound some sense into those horrid gay penguins!!:eek:

http://www.emperor-penguin.com/gay-penguins.html
Well, Bat, that was more than I ever wanted to know about Penguins and their love lives! ... Very interesting, thanks.

(so not a word about my hotdog and me) .... sheesh!! ... to each their own I say :D

lucille
08-09-2008, 10:22 AM
Thanks for the background, Oak...I think the next administration should send her as ambassador to Antarctica where she could pound some sense into those horrid gay penguins!!:eek:

http://www.emperor-penguin.com/gay-penguins.html

If you don't mind, I would prefer you keep her on your side of the equator thanks.:D