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sky
05-13-2008, 10:36 PM
Today when I stopped at an AT&T store located in a strip mall by my home and I saw a couple fighting and it was actually really frightening to whitness. I almost called the police. What would you have done? This is what happened. sorry it might be along story.

After I left the store I got back in my car and was going to back up but I couldn't because there was a truck sitting right behind that didn't move. I waited a bit and then the guy in the truck started honking his horn at a car in front of him that was just sitting there half way in and half way out of a parking space blocking the road. I thought what are these people doing? but the ladies didn't even look at him or pull her car back in the parking space or out of the parking space to let him go by. She just continued to sit there.

Finally the guy backed all the way up and out of the whole strip mall parking lot out of a different direction and out of a different exit because there was no where to turn around and this lady wan't moving her car for some odd reason.

So I thought about backing out myself and going the direction the guy just did that just left the strip mall. BUTt the way I was situated in the parking space (I was crooked and it was a very narrow space) it was difficult to back out enough to head in that direction so I backed out the other way and ended up facing the womens car that was just sitting there. And this lady continued to just sit there blocking the driveway. So I was wondering what in the worl she was doing so I honked at her and and she didn't even turn and look at me. She just continued to sit there staring right ahead.

Then I saw this man come out of one of the other stores in the strip mall that was CLEARLY angry and very pissed walking over towards this women... So I immediately was thinking she must have hit his car or something. I was looking to see if I could see any damage and I didn't see any.

Then the man started screaming at her that she was a f#ckin nazi b*tch over and over. Just screaming and cussing at her. And the the lady appeared to be taking notes. I could clearly see her pen and paper and that she was writing something down... T

Then his guy through the bag that he had been carrying from the store into in his car and headed for her car screaming it wasn't locked, it wasn't locked you lying f*cking nazi b*tch. It wasn't locked you lying f8cking nazi b*tch and you know it.

So I am realizing that they must know each other before this. I'm thinking maybe ex's or something? So this lady starts yelling something back at him but I couldn't make out what she was saying because of the direction she was facing and the pitch of her voice . But I could tell it wasn't good of course!!

This guy was so upset he was literally walking in circles over and over and shaking his fist. As he headed for her car again I thought for sure he was going to hit her. he just looked like he wanted to kill her. I was thinking to myself hurray and roll up your window and leave lady because this guy is going to hurt you. The whole thing was scary and really very pathetic actually. The man looked so sad, and angry, and tired, and just beside himself. I sort of felt sorry for him yet scarred at the same time. And I could tell the women was still screaming and actually appeared to be taunting him. Although I couldn't make out exactly what she was saying.

I am thinking to myself should I call the police? I was starting to get my cell phone ready because I didn't know what was going to happen. It was one of the moments when I felt like I would be repeating this story to the police later.

The guy walked over to her car one more time and reached inside the car and appeared to be grabbing her like he was going to strangle her or something... It didn't look as though he struck her though. I still felt really scared and uneasy by the whole situation...

Then the guy let go and walked back to his car and then back to hers, and then back to his, and so on and so on. He looked like he was trying to decide what to do next. And she just continued to sit there blocking the driveway takingnotes and yelling at times. Finally he ended up getting in his car,-- and I thought Oh GOOD!!!!! finally its over!!!

So then the women pulled forward slightly enough that I had enough room to pass behind her. I passed both cars but then pulled over to the side and stopped and watched,- and waited to see what would happen next,--- if anything. I was afraid to leave because I wasns't sure if it was all over.
But then the man started backing up and I new that he was leaving. I was wondering if I should get BOTH of there license plates,-- but it seemed to me to be finally over and I dind't have a pen so I didn't.

So then I headed for the parking lot exit, and turned on my left turn signal to make a left onto the main road,-- and was actually starting to go when the man passed me on my left. He actually went all the way around my left side and turned right --right in front of me cutting me off. Even though my left turn signal was on. I almost hit him...I wasn't anticipating that. Then and this was incredible the lady did the exact same thing to me! she was actually following him!!!!!!!!!! I thought to myself PLEASE DON"T FOLLOW HIM you idiot!!

I though for sure if they don't have an accident driving like maniacs like that then they will kill each other anyway someday... Should I have followed them and tried to get there licence plate? I still feel very unsettled and worried by the whole thing that I saw today...

Why do people have to act like that?? Crazy and very sad. Why can't some people just get a divorce and leave each other alone?

Sky

Elliott
05-13-2008, 11:14 PM
Sounds to me like there might be some adult beverages involved in this situation. And I think you may have answered your own question: crazy and very sad. Some folks just thrive on drama, and for some it's foreplay. I hope there's not a next time, but if there is, please keep yourself safe first. Then call 911 and let professionals take care of things. Glad you're okay.... Love, E

DaveM
05-14-2008, 12:17 AM
That would be my advice: stay clear and call the police. They might not show up in time to sort things out, but you'll have done what you can. Let's face it, this is not the sort of situation any of us is capable of dealing with singlehandedly (or even in fair-sized numbers).

Dee
05-14-2008, 07:50 AM
Yes, I would keep a distance and phone for help . . . and a nut wagon.

I’m not saying a public display of unbridled emotions is immature and a form of emotional masturbation.

It is, but I’m not saying it. :p

Oak Kitten
05-14-2008, 10:12 AM
I concur with the foregoing. Don't get yourself involved in a domestic dispute. It sounds as if one or both of these individuals are a few french fries short of a Happy Meal. The police are probably well acquainted with both of them.

Oak

Ginny
05-14-2008, 10:15 AM
Yes, I would keep a distance and phone for help . . . and a nut wagon.

I’m not saying a public display of unbridled emotions is immature and a form of emotional masturbation.

It is, but I’m not saying it. :p

Dee, thanks for not saying this... :D I agree with you 100 %. :)

sky
05-14-2008, 12:03 PM
Your right everyone. thanks

A far as maybe alchohol being involved it was around 10:30 in the morning. I am just glad that it is not my life and I don't have to deal with those kinds of problems!
Sky

Elliott
05-14-2008, 12:07 PM
Hey, it's five o'clock somewhere! ;)

hoops
05-14-2008, 05:01 PM
sky,
first, i'm glad it didn;t get bad enough to involve you or anyone else.
i'm with the others, get safe and call the police. I have neighbors above me who love to fight. they have screaming matches all the time. first time i called the police, who came to me and told me they knew the couple well. i felt, at least no one got phyisically hurt. it's a tough situation to be in, be safe first then call police.
peace
hoops