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Eva
05-03-2006, 04:05 PM
It's my turn to boast. I don't have children, so I'll tell you about my nephew and how proud I am to be his aunt. He is almost 17 now. It seemed only yesterday that he was still a kid. Today he came over for dinner to me and I found out that he is no longer a kid, but that he is becoming a fine young man.

He is going through a hard time because my brother and his wife got divorced but are still living in the same house. He lives there too and seeing his parents obviously not like eachother is really hard on him. In spite of the fact that his parents are making a mess out of their lives right now, he manages to be true to himself and to deal with the situation the best way he can.

He goes to school and has plans for his future. During the hollidays and the weekends he works hard to earn his own money to buy the thinks he likes. He likes fine quality clothes and shoes (yes, he's obviously family) but he is not very materialistic. And he likes to cook and eat, so we talked recipes. :D He is planning to get his driver's licence when he is 18 and maybe one day buy his own car.

He cares a lot about friends and family. And he is a very nice and loving person to be with. He is very openminded and doesn't take things for granted, just because his peers, television or others around him have a certain opinion. He is very capable of forming his own opinions and he is a very sensitive person.

Today I also discovered he writes rapsongs. He loves music and writes very personal raps. He says he can express himself really well through it. He wrote down two of his raps for me. One is about how he feels about the divorce and the other is about his view on society. There were some beautiful lines in there and I could see that these lyrics come from deep within him.

I know I am partial here. But I think he is a wonderful guy!

Eva
A proud aunt

Lin
05-03-2006, 05:26 PM
Eva - he sounds like a wonderful guy! And isn't it wonderful that he can write down his feelings and put them to song? My son writes alot (music, poetry, etc.) and it's a great way to express yourself. You should be very proud of him!!!!

Lin

Denise
05-03-2006, 08:00 PM
He definitely sounds like a boy to be proud of!!!!!

Agnes
05-03-2006, 11:37 PM
That's the kind of person we need a lot more of, methinks :) You should be proud and bragging about him, Eva :D

david uk
05-04-2006, 06:57 AM
Eva that's such a great post- as Agnes says, we need more posts like this...

He seems like the kind of person who triumphs in spite of adversity:)

dutchcloggie
05-04-2006, 08:15 AM
Eva, do you mean to say that not all young people these days spend their time drinking and smoking and scrounging off the state whilst having multiple babies with different partners in a council house???? Wow. I must be reading the wrong newspapers then. I will cancel my subscription to the Daily Mail/Mirror/Star/Telegraph and the Sun right away!!!

:D

Seriously. It is nice to hear positive things about young people. All you hear is how bad they are and how materialistic.

Good for him to be such a nice, well-rounded bloke!

Eva
05-04-2006, 08:30 AM
That's right, Cloggie! He doesn't smoke, he doesn't drink and he says (!) he doesn't do drugs. He has no reason to lie to me because I won't tell his folks anything.

Geez, he is even more well-behaved than I am! :eek:

Eva

SongDragon
05-04-2006, 01:19 PM
Eva! Hook me up! Where can I get one of those?! I'm teasing you... you don't have to respond to that. I find I like the lyrics to rap (some of them), but I definitely don't like the sound... But jeez, right while I'm looking for a prom date? Did you have to describe the perfect guy (or as close to perfect as they come).

He sounds like a wonderful nephew to have, Eva, and very strong despite what he is going through. At seventeen he has definitely got me beat, my plans are a little loose at the moment.

~Song

Eva
05-04-2006, 04:03 PM
And he is goodlooking too, Song! ;) He has a girlfriend now, but he is not looking for anything 'steady'. He had a different girlfriend two months ago. :rolleyes:

Eva

hoops
05-04-2006, 06:21 PM
Eva,
from one proud aunt to another I'm SURE he gets a lot of his sense from you :)...say it proud say it loud hun ! congrats

Dar
05-04-2006, 06:25 PM
You go ahead and brag girlfriend! I've got two nephews of my own so I understand the compulsion to boast!!

Eva
05-05-2006, 06:09 PM
Isn't it cool to be an aunt? :D

Eva

Agnes
05-06-2006, 12:08 AM
Yes it is :D Not the fuss, only the fun :D

gisli
05-06-2006, 05:43 PM
Yes it is really nice that we still have pure bred 100% nice guys and girls around in this world. I know a couple, one sits her at home playing the piano and gets A+ in all of his tests in school, doesnt drink, drug, smoke or have sex.
And here is also another, he is playing the violin and gets A in all of his tests, he is a bit younger, 13 years old, he reads the bible.....he doesn´t even swear.
They call it fun to sit down in front of the cd and listen to "classic" music. Today Bach is they´re favorite as is Rachmaninoff exspecially his piano concert no 3.

I as a responsible father have decided to worry over the fact that I do not have to worry......

.....oh well I still got one 4 year old, maybe......just maybe, he will be the one that gives me them grey hairs.

Eva
05-06-2006, 07:32 PM
Don't worry Gisli. My nephew does things sometimes that give his parents and others grey hair. But he is just a good person. He can swear all he want, as far as I'm concerned. Not having sex doesn't make anyone a better person. And in our family we don't care for the bible. I wish you lots of troubles with your 4 year old. Maybe you'll stop worrying then... ;)

Eva

gisli
05-07-2006, 04:09 AM
I wish you lots of troubles with your 4 year old. Maybe you'll stop worrying then... ;) Eva

Thank you Eva, I´ll keep my fingers crossed.

Your nephew seems like a good normal kid. And you are right, parents should not have to worry about not worrying.

(Walkes away from this post and murmurs: They make happy pills....why don´t they make worry pills???)

snakegrl
05-07-2006, 06:26 AM
Hey, good for him to be true to himself. A rareity indeed. Sound a bit like my nephew, doesn't have to thump his chest all day to prove he is a man.
Snakegrl

Eva
05-08-2006, 07:20 PM
Today was my nephew's 17th birthday. I gave him a pretty hardcover notebook to write his raplyrics in. And a card in wich I wrote a sentence from a poem by Lucebert, that I felt, fitted here. About how our sound creates a revolution. Singing, dancing. He liked it a lot. I am glad he did. I am happy he found a way to express himself and this was my way to encourage him in doing it.

Eva

Agnes
05-08-2006, 11:41 PM
Cool, Eva :) Sounds like the perfect quote!