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hoops
10-26-2007, 09:13 PM
Please, send this in support of your friends and loved ones who are. Love is not defined by color, creed, sexual preference, or gender.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the boy who never finished high school, because I got called a fag everyday

I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didnt have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am a warrior for my country serving proud, but can't be my true self because gays aren't allowed in the military.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.

I am the person ashamed to tell my own friends I'm a lesbian, because they constantly make fun of them.

I am the boy tied to a fence, beaten to a bloody pulp and left to die because two straight men wanted to "teach me a lesson."


This is the boy, Matthew Shepard. On October 7, 1998 Aaron McKinney and Russell Henderson lead him to a remote area east of Laramie where they demonstrated unimaginable acts of hate. Matthew was tied to a split-rail fence where he was beaten and left to die in the cold of the night. Almost 18 hours later he was found by a cyclist who initially mistook him for a scarecrow. Matthew died on October 12 at 12:53 am at a hospital in Fort Collins, Colorado. KILLED BECAUSE HE WAS GAY!!!

just think about it, if there is someone you might like to share it with, please do, i know i did. if there is no one, that's fine too...no one is keeping score
peace
hoops




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lucille
10-26-2007, 09:25 PM
Thanks Hoops. I will pass that on.

DaveM
10-26-2007, 11:17 PM
And thank God, we are the people who know better and will not remain silent until others learn as well. There can never be too many of us. Consider this passed on to as many as I can think of.

aabram
10-27-2007, 08:09 AM
And thank God, we are the people who know better and will not remain silent until others learn as well. There can never be too many of us. Consider this passed on to as many as I can think of.

Dave, knowing better sounds good to me. Catherine's best friend is moving in with us in November just because of such parents :(

Annabel

DaveM
10-27-2007, 02:36 PM
I can imagine, Anabel....there are a lot of parents like that in this world. More's the pity. The truly odd thing about people who behave like this is that they often regard themselves as being righteous. It would be funny if the consequences for their victims were not so serious.

aabram
10-28-2007, 09:33 AM
I can imagine, Anabel....there are a lot of parents like that in this world. More's the pity. The truly odd thing about people who behave like this is that they often regard themselves as being righteous. It would be funny if the consequences for their victims were not so serious.

Dave, (and Noel too) Julia has just announced to the world that she wants gender realignment surgery and has been accepted for the programme they have here. I once lived next door to one such woman too. It doesn't bother me one way or the other and as a result I can but be supportive to her where her parents have failed. She will move in in the next couple of weeks and I shall make sure she reads the original post to this thread.

Annabel

david uk
10-28-2007, 12:58 PM
Dave, (and Noel too) Julia has just announced to the world that she wants gender realignment surgery and has been accepted for the programme they have here. I once lived next door to one such woman too. It doesn't bother me one way or the other and as a result I can but be supportive to her where her parents have failed. She will move in in the next couple of weeks and I shall make sure she reads the original post to this thread.

Annabel

good for you Annabel, I'm sure you'll be a great support to her.

people who feel they have been born in the wrong gender are the last bastion of dicrimination...even gay people discriminate against them somethimes, which is one thing I will never understand.

DaveM
10-28-2007, 04:10 PM
A person's a person. Would be absolutely delighted to have Julia as a neighbor--she'd be so much better than than the people who live next door (in any direction) now.

Come to think of it, the only well-behaved household on the block is the gay couple four doors up the hill.

hoops
10-28-2007, 06:16 PM
wonderful annabel! good luck to both of you.
peace
hoops

aabram
10-30-2007, 01:23 PM
Thankyou Noel. I have forwarded all that on to Catherine who has sent it on to Julia (or Zack as she likes to be known now) It's just that the parents are still living in 1807, not 2007...all old-fashioned, intransigent, totally unsupportive and unable to move with the times.

And incidentally I've just realised that (had he lived) my father would have been 100 on January 9th this year....... :D

hoops
10-30-2007, 10:36 PM
Annabel,
I know someone like that...when it comes to life situations such as these, and as much as i love my Dad and i know he loves me, it doesn;t make it easy for any of us to be who we are.
peace
hoops

Darlene
10-31-2007, 03:05 AM
Thank you Annabel for taking a stand where so many fail. Please let Zack know that he will be getting loads of prayers and rudie vibes from my small part of the world.

Noel I will be sending the message out to my Southern fundimenalist e-address list!

peace,darlene

aabram
10-31-2007, 01:12 PM
Oh gosh, this is very sweet of you both.... It's just I have no time for people like the parents of the soon-to-be Zack. S/he has sometimes told me s/he wished I was his/her mum. I'm flattered, but I'm really nothing special.....just that I have learned to BE there for my kids and that if someone else's kids need my help then I'll be there for them too. Don't I just wish other parents were as liberal-minded as I am