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Darlene
07-20-2007, 11:53 AM
I got a call about an hour ago. My family who are all there decided to call me. They say that it only a matter of time, she is dying. Hospice is there giving her pain meds they are not giving her any food. I can't go because I don't have transperation. Everyone in my family are there so they cannot take me. I don't know what to do my family already, well lets say, dislikes me and they are going to be really angry that I can't get there. I have already said my goodbyes to her a few weeks ago. I don't think she will know if I am even there. They say she smiles, if she wakes, when they give her a shot. If I can get there in time it will be for a family that did not even call me before they gathered so I coulg get a ride there. She is an hour away and I can't get there.
Please send prayers and rudie vibes, as I sit here an hour away and wait for her to die.
Peace, Darlene

RedjackRyan
07-20-2007, 11:56 AM
My sympathy and prayers are with you, Darlene.

GodSistah
07-20-2007, 11:59 AM
You got it!
Instantaneous Rudie Vibes!
And you are most definately in my prayers!

((((Rudie Vibes))))

~Andrea~

Mimi
07-20-2007, 12:17 PM
Rudievibes and prayers are coming your way from abroad, dear friend!

Big Hug, Mimi

Dee
07-20-2007, 12:45 PM
Darlene,

This is truly sad news indeed. Wish I could do something to help.

Prayers for you and your family during this difficult time.

Daniel http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k267/deemark/Emoticons/hug.gif

DaveM
07-20-2007, 12:53 PM
Dangit Darlene, call a cab and send me the bill. I mean it.

You have my sympathies, of course, but it seems something a bit more tangible is required here.

Am just in the process of going out of town for a few but you will be in my thoughts.

Rickster
07-20-2007, 01:24 PM
Darlene, Very sad to hear the news! Please know that we are praying for you and your family! Be strong my friend! Please keep us posted. :(

Agnes
07-20-2007, 03:15 PM
So sorry to hear this news, Darlene. :( I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Eva
07-20-2007, 03:46 PM
Oh Darlene, how terrible. aren't there any busses going or trains? Maybe DaveM is right about that cab. Something to seriously consider. It is a great offer he is making there.

Eva

stardust
07-20-2007, 04:37 PM
My heart breaks for you, and I wish I could help in some way, too. Sending lots of love and prayer to you.

hoops
07-20-2007, 06:30 PM
Darlene,
I'm so very sorry about your mom. can you get a cab? a rental car? i will also be glad to help with the expense. i hope and wish there is something we can do to help you. you have my thoughts and prayers
peace
Noel

Ginny
07-20-2007, 07:08 PM
Darlene, I'm sending a prayer upwards for you for peace of heart. Hang in there. - Ginny

BeckyVA
07-20-2007, 09:29 PM
Darlene,
I am so very sorry; I echo the thoughts of all before me and I too, would be more than happy to pay for your transportation. Let me know.
God be with you during this difficult time.
Becky

KarenSews2
07-20-2007, 10:02 PM
Darwoods, I'm thinking of you and sending good thoughts. Is your mother in Knoxville? I, too, would be happy to help pay for your transportation.

Karen

kiwi mike
07-21-2007, 03:05 AM
My Dear Darlene...........I find it very difficult to say anything, about your Mom. I am not religious at all, but you will have my full sympathy.
Kiwi Mike

corolla girl
07-21-2007, 08:46 AM
Darlene,
My thoughts and prayers are coming your way. I hope this will help bring peace to you. corolla girl....

Darlene
07-21-2007, 08:55 AM
Thank you guys so very much for all your kind words and generous offers. She still hasn't passed, they don't know why she is alive. I have a ride today but I don't know if I want to go. I have already said my goodbyes to her while she was still conscious.
Well my daughter has just called we are going to see my mom.
Peace, Darlene

Elliott
07-21-2007, 08:56 AM
I've been praying for you and your family since yesterday. My thoughts are with you, and I wish you comfort. I have gone thru this myself. Peace, Elliott

aabram
07-21-2007, 11:41 AM
Darlene, you are in my prayers as always. I wonder if Edinburgh towers can ring half-muffled tomorrow for Darlene and her Mom. (((((HUGS)))))

Annabel

Roady
07-21-2007, 12:54 PM
I'm sorry you are having to endure such emotional pain. Sending rudie vibes your way!