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Darlene
07-20-2007, 11:53 AM
I got a call about an hour ago. My family who are all there decided to call me. They say that it only a matter of time, she is dying. Hospice is there giving her pain meds they are not giving her any food. I can't go because I don't have transperation. Everyone in my family are there so they cannot take me. I don't know what to do my family already, well lets say, dislikes me and they are going to be really angry that I can't get there. I have already said my goodbyes to her a few weeks ago. I don't think she will know if I am even there. They say she smiles, if she wakes, when they give her a shot. If I can get there in time it will be for a family that did not even call me before they gathered so I coulg get a ride there. She is an hour away and I can't get there.
Please send prayers and rudie vibes, as I sit here an hour away and wait for her to die.
Peace, Darlene
RedjackRyan
07-20-2007, 11:56 AM
My sympathy and prayers are with you, Darlene.
GodSistah
07-20-2007, 11:59 AM
You got it!
Instantaneous Rudie Vibes!
And you are most definately in my prayers!
((((Rudie Vibes))))
~Andrea~
Rudievibes and prayers are coming your way from abroad, dear friend!
Big Hug, Mimi
Darlene,
This is truly sad news indeed. Wish I could do something to help.
Prayers for you and your family during this difficult time.
Daniel http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k267/deemark/Emoticons/hug.gif
DaveM
07-20-2007, 12:53 PM
Dangit Darlene, call a cab and send me the bill. I mean it.
You have my sympathies, of course, but it seems something a bit more tangible is required here.
Am just in the process of going out of town for a few but you will be in my thoughts.
Rickster
07-20-2007, 01:24 PM
Darlene, Very sad to hear the news! Please know that we are praying for you and your family! Be strong my friend! Please keep us posted. :(
Agnes
07-20-2007, 03:15 PM
So sorry to hear this news, Darlene. :( I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh Darlene, how terrible. aren't there any busses going or trains? Maybe DaveM is right about that cab. Something to seriously consider. It is a great offer he is making there.
Eva
stardust
07-20-2007, 04:37 PM
My heart breaks for you, and I wish I could help in some way, too. Sending lots of love and prayer to you.
hoops
07-20-2007, 06:30 PM
Darlene,
I'm so very sorry about your mom. can you get a cab? a rental car? i will also be glad to help with the expense. i hope and wish there is something we can do to help you. you have my thoughts and prayers
peace
Noel
Ginny
07-20-2007, 07:08 PM
Darlene, I'm sending a prayer upwards for you for peace of heart. Hang in there. - Ginny
BeckyVA
07-20-2007, 09:29 PM
Darlene,
I am so very sorry; I echo the thoughts of all before me and I too, would be more than happy to pay for your transportation. Let me know.
God be with you during this difficult time.
Becky
KarenSews2
07-20-2007, 10:02 PM
Darwoods, I'm thinking of you and sending good thoughts. Is your mother in Knoxville? I, too, would be happy to help pay for your transportation.
Karen
kiwi mike
07-21-2007, 03:05 AM
My Dear Darlene...........I find it very difficult to say anything, about your Mom. I am not religious at all, but you will have my full sympathy.
Kiwi Mike
corolla girl
07-21-2007, 08:46 AM
Darlene,
My thoughts and prayers are coming your way. I hope this will help bring peace to you. corolla girl....
Darlene
07-21-2007, 08:55 AM
Thank you guys so very much for all your kind words and generous offers. She still hasn't passed, they don't know why she is alive. I have a ride today but I don't know if I want to go. I have already said my goodbyes to her while she was still conscious.
Well my daughter has just called we are going to see my mom.
Peace, Darlene
Elliott
07-21-2007, 08:56 AM
I've been praying for you and your family since yesterday. My thoughts are with you, and I wish you comfort. I have gone thru this myself. Peace, Elliott
aabram
07-21-2007, 11:41 AM
Darlene, you are in my prayers as always. I wonder if Edinburgh towers can ring half-muffled tomorrow for Darlene and her Mom. (((((HUGS)))))
Annabel
Roady
07-21-2007, 12:54 PM
I'm sorry you are having to endure such emotional pain. Sending rudie vibes your way!
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