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Aunt Becky
04-09-2006, 10:27 PM
Hello - This is my first post. Guess I'm the new kid on the block. I sent this as an email to Janis, and she actually emailed me back. Could you die??!!! She was packing for the UK. Can't believe she would take the time to reply. I was afraid she might put a restraining order out on me after reading this. Anyway, hope you enjoy my little story:

On Saturday, April 1 2006, I was fortunate to have a VIP seat in the second row for the Janis Ian concert in the charming little town of Mount Dora, Florida. Although this was my first time to see Janis in person, I knew I was going to love it since I've been very connected to her music for a hundred years. What I didn't know could fill an epistle. I knew Janis was an exceptional songwriter and singer. What I didn't know is that Janis Ian is a magician. How was I to know she could make the rest of the world disappear? How was I to know she could make the world stop spinning for two hours? How was I to know that she would rock my world and shake my emotions at their roots? We were enthralled, transfixed, transported to some other place.

After the concert I of course stood in line for the autograph signing. Standing for some time as they set up for the large crowd, I had time to think...well of course I'm going to say something very profound to my precious idol, something clever for sure, and no doubt something terribly memorable. I'll tell her my husband's shirt is soaked from my tears tonight as she reached in and touched my heart to the very core. I'll tell her how I'm not just a regular old fan who loves her music. Oh no, I must somehow let her know that she's had an impact on my life; a profound impact. When I was 16 years old I sang "Society's Child" in my coffeehouse set. I didn't really understand the social commentary until many years later, but I knew it was making a statement and it was an important song. I must somehow let her know how the first time my band was on the road I bought my first cassette tape player for my car (that was something new in the '70's) and the only tape I had for weeks was "Between The Lines", and every song on that album is in my psyche, under my skin. I must let her know I don't just hear her songs, I feel them at the cellular level. The melodies are like rare gems, the lyrics often other-worldly. How does she do it? Where does it all come from? I'm next in line...say something, make your mark, she must know how special she is.

Choke... Silence... In all my many years I have never been at a loss for words. I'm never quiet. I always have a snappy comment in my pocket. But nothing. I'm standing right in front of Janis Ian. She shook my hand. She's writing "To Becky" on the poster. They're going to make me move on in 5 seconds. Say something, you dufus! "Gee, Janis, two hours ago I had some decent eye liner on and a new travel package of tissue. Now the kleenex is gone and I'm a wreck." So, hot shot, that's all you've got??? Standing in the presence of such greatness, and that's all you've got?!!!!! Your make-up is cried off?!!! Oh for godsake, just move on so the next person can give this musical treasure her due.

Oh well, I'll get myself to another concert, maybe next year, and then, yeah buddy, I'll have a fabulous comment for my Janis Ian. I've got months to plan it this time. It'll be brilliant. It'll be profound. She'll remember it always. She'll write a song about it!! It will inspire her!!
She'll write a song that will save humanity from its woes!! And then boy oh boy I'll Be Somebody!! I'll have a hand in saving the world!! Okay, I'm done now. I need a nap. Long live Folk Music. Long live Janis Ian. Love ya. Mean it. Aunt Becky

Agnes
04-09-2006, 10:45 PM
Tongue-tied, yeah, I can relate to that. (Rarely happens to me as well.)

Anyway; welcome to the JIMB, Aunt Becky :) Make yourself comfortable and enjoy the ride.

Rkitko
04-09-2006, 10:55 PM
Great story, Aunt Becky :) I felt the same way the first (and only) time I've seen Janis live. Welcome to the message board!

DaveM
04-09-2006, 11:09 PM
Do stick around--you won't be the new kid on the block for long! And there's always room for one more on the bus (you'll encounter the bus sooner or later--or the pirate ship).

Sometimes I think Janis must be a bit embarrassed at the emotions she brings out in people and at how we "gush" about it ("burble", as I tend to put it). And I have no idea whether she tends to bring out such raw instinct from her audiences. But she does. She always has. And may she be blessed for it.

I recall the first time I met Janis....it happened some hours before I expected it. To this day I cannot recall what it was, but I'd had something "profound" to say when the moment came and it simply went away. I finally managed "Hi, it's good to see you" and got a handshake. Later we got to talk more and I got two Janis hugs, which are most remarkable experiences. A friend is a trained massage therapist and when you get hugged by her you get HUGGED. But even her hugs pale beside Janis hugs--I kid you not.

A very special human being, as she is no doubt tired of hearing by now. Perhaps we should grumble about her now and then to maintain some balance? I can't think of anything to grumble about.

Dee
04-10-2006, 03:29 AM
Welcome to the message board, Aunt Becky.

Denise
04-10-2006, 03:57 AM
How wonderful for you to have experienced that & WELCOME!!

RedjackRyan
04-10-2006, 05:51 AM
welcome to the nuthouse Becky!

grab a chair, put your feet up, and make yourself right at home.

CD Matthew
04-10-2006, 08:26 AM
... for that write-up of your first Janis encounter. I think many of us at one time or another experience that kind of speechless, awestruck feeling to actually MEET, up close and personal, the woman whose art has meant so much to us for so long. I still am amazed at how REAL and accessible Janis is, and I don't take lightly how vulnerable this makes her, how she chooses to extend herself in such a direct way; makes me want to treat her with utmost respect and honor, which would be easy enough just based on her music, but add to that her very personal connection to us fans out here...truly amazing!

Good to have you on board, Auntie. Hope you'll stick around and share more thoughts as the spirit moves you.

CD Matthew (in Boston)

Cardiffgal
04-10-2006, 10:41 AM
You found the right place to come home to. Loved your post. Keep coming back.

KarenSews2
04-10-2006, 10:43 AM
You have found a wonderful place to be!

I believe you even had the pleasure of meeting my dear friends Kath and Lucille at the concert! Lucky you!

SongDragon
04-10-2006, 01:01 PM
Welcome Aunt Becky!

Don't worry... I seem like a "posts a lot" person on here because I am... Just don't put me in front of people I admire. I don't need to tell my "fumbling words" introduction to Janis Ian again... Especially with some of the eyes that fell on me. I also wanted to say "My-sized hero!" because my friends and I used to all compare ourselves to our teachers (I kind of fit in with one that surprised me later by also being a Janis Ian fan, but someone once called her Mrs. Knee-high). So... I think I've bitten a hole through my tongue after seeing Janis so many times and chewing on my lip without knowing what to say.

So welcome to the club. Enjoy the message board, and see you around!

~Song

gisli
04-10-2006, 01:19 PM
Thanks for this post Aunt Becky, great to read, you write beautefully, keep posting. Welcome to Rudieworld.

Lin
04-10-2006, 02:05 PM
Great post Becky! Welcome to the board!

Lin

Mike UK
04-10-2006, 02:57 PM
Hmmm ... I just can't resist posting this extract from Observation One (http://www.bewilderingstories.com/issue122/singing01.html), here and now: :)

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Before the concert ended, to sustained applause and successful demands for encores, Janis had reminded the audience that she would do her usual “meet and greet” after the show. She would stay until everyone who wanted to had met her and exchanged a few words. ‘You’re the people who support me and my work. I figure I owe you all. It’s the least I can do ...’

Toni had forgotten this would happen. But, of course, he and Mireille seized the opportunity, and waited happily near the front of the line, chatting to more like-minded neighbours once again ...

Suddenly, it was their turn. Mireille was clearly very nervous — which he found really surprising — and she simply murmured something bland to Janis about how great the show had been. And when Toni tried to say something, he too found himself desperately tongue-tied — but Janis smiled encouragingly, and finally he leaned forward, kissed her on the cheek, and managed to blurt out ‘My name’s Toni ... and I’ve just loved your music for years and years ...’

His heroine smiled another grateful smile. ‘Thank you, Toni. That’s why I keep doing what I do! Do you have anything you’d like me to sign for you?’

Toni remembered the Between the Lines CD that was still in his jacket pocket. He handed it over, and the writer wrote:

For Toni ... one day, I hope to admire something great that you have done. You know, Stars and Fans are one and the same! Best, Janis

He was speechless as he took back the CD. Then he remembered the roses, pulled them from their bag, and thrust them into the singer’s arms. ‘It’s the spring time still, Janis!’ And then (he could not later recall these last moments) he and Mireille must have mumbled their thankyous and their goodbyes to the artist and her jovial assistants, and, with many more people still waiting in the queue behind them, made their way back to the foyer ...

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From "Observation One: Singing of promises ..." Chapter 20 (http://www.bewilderingstories.com/issue140/singing20.html)

Mike

Dar
04-10-2006, 06:01 PM
Beautifully written!! You are amongst kindred spirits here.
I think you just described exactly the way many of us felt the first time we came face to face with HERSELF.

WELCOME!!

hoops
04-10-2006, 06:34 PM
welcome to the wonderful world of the most generous and kind ( not to mention the talent and the brains and all) Janis Ian. i remeber i almost wet myself the first time Janis replied to an email of mine! little ole ME!! AND THEN I find this message board and see our host joining in with us here!!! We are blessed to have her and we are glad you are here with us. talk to your friends! get them on here too. the more the merrier.
peace
hoops

dragonlady
04-10-2006, 08:37 PM
Aunt Becky...I'm usually the kind of person who can talk to anyone anywhere...but completely blanked upon meeting Janis that first time...was able to coherently follow a conversation my partner started when agroup sat down when nearly all the signing was done and the topic turned to science fiction books.

It's hard to tell your idol all you want to say that in that first encounter...it's overwhelming. At least it was to me...

-di

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Kath of the Guitar
04-11-2006, 11:36 PM
Becky, Join the club... sometimes I think we're all nuts...as for me, I'm amazed that I'm not only standing in front of a brilliant artist, but someone I admire for her integrity, and like an idiot I never say what I wanted to.

Go for it Mike;) This is what I miss...Belle you out there...climb up that piano girl...LMAO:D
HUGS
Kath

Aunt Becky
04-11-2006, 11:39 PM
Well, Gee Wiz guys, Thanks so much for all of the Warm Welcomes, kind remarks, and funny and interesting stories. I had no idea I was about to connect with so many way-cool people. But, obviously, if you're a serious JI fan, you must be way cool, right? I can hardly believe that a bone head would "get her". I could be wrong. But anyway, it's been a boat-load of fun already, and we're just getting started. You guys give good reply. Thanks a bazillion. Warm fuzzies all around. Love ya. Mean it. Aunt Becky

Kathleen Brogan
04-12-2006, 10:31 PM
Yeah, I'm still around! Love ya Kath!

Kath of the Guitar
04-12-2006, 11:26 PM
I miss the BROGAN...:(