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Irish Beth
07-28-2006, 08:03 AM
So where ya been? I hear you saying. Well I am truly sorry for having been so remiss with keeping up with everyone on the board. Especally with the Jannic drawing ever closer. This has been a pretty incredible summer. – work has been a bear and much of my lack of communications can be blamed on my lack of home internet service. I have just been too busy with work to chat.

Secondly, my sister-in-law, Ruthann, as you may remember, has been struggling with leukemia for the past two years. Her initial bone marrow transfer failed and later this year she was scheduled for a second attempt at bone marrow. July 10th it was decided to remove her spleen as it was believed to be enlarged to about twice normal size. At the time of the operation her spleen was actually three times normal size. After the operation she was taken to her room. Several hours later her blood pressure sky rocketed, her pulse went up to 180 beats per minute, her kidney failed, gall bladder failed, liver failed, she was unable to breathe on her own, and they sedated her to a point of deep sleep. She was taken to ICU and placed on a ventilator. We were not given much hope that she would survive the next several days. Remarkably, she continued to hang in and fight. She eventually began breathing on her own (July 25) got her kidneys working (July 23) and was taken off sedation. Despite warnings not to get our hopes up, we did. She was initially able to squeeze my brother’s hand and communicate with him a little.

Yesterday they tried sitting her up a little, but her breathing became extremely labored. My brother met with all the physicians who advised him that she is in extremely poor condition. Her body has been so ravaged by the leukemia and then the various organ failures that there is no longer any hope of a second transplant. She will not be re-ventilated because that would also involve inserting a feeding tube, something she and my brother decided a long time ago was a step they would not take. That being said, Ruthann appears extremely exhausted and stated that fact to my brother. The game plan at this point is for the MDs to do what they can to remove the poisons from her system (caused by liver and gall bladder) and keep her as comfortable as possible.

So we go day to day, and I have been concentrating on praying for both Ruthann and Michael. I pray they are given the strength to deal with each day. I want to thank everyone here for all the support you have given along the way and I look forward to having the great good fortune to thank many of you in person at the Jannic.

So, how you been?

Agnes
07-28-2006, 08:22 AM
IB, please know that I'll add my prayers to yours.

Randy & Betty in Pa
07-28-2006, 09:09 AM
Beth...

Our prayers to you and yours....

R. from Pa

RedjackRyan
07-28-2006, 09:11 AM
Hang in there sweetie. Luv and prayers to you and yours.

Randy & Betty in Pa
07-28-2006, 09:18 AM
Hang in there sweetie. Luv and prayers to you and yours.


Beth you know we love you more then that thar pirate... no matter what he says.... Why he's so vile he'd steal a leg right out from under you....

We miss your sillies and laughter!!!

Best again

R. The Non-Pirate from Pa

Dee
07-28-2006, 12:16 PM
Prayers for Ruthann, Michael, and you Beth. Good to hear from you. :)

DaveM
07-28-2006, 12:36 PM
We are given one day at a time--may today be a good one, and "sufficient unto the morrow be the troubles therof".

Thoughts and Rudie Power headed your way. As for that business about Redjack....didn't see it, wasn't there, don't know anything about it. However, I know he's innocent. Just can't reveal my sources.

Oak Kitten
07-28-2006, 03:16 PM
Beth,

So sorry to hear of your family troubles. I wish you and your loved ones the strength and resilience to see you through.

Oak

Eva
07-28-2006, 06:32 PM
Your poor sister-in-law... I hope they can keep her as comfortable as possible. Take care, Beth!

Eva

Robert the Bard
07-28-2006, 06:49 PM
My sympathy, and my own prayers. *Hopes for the best.*

hoops
07-28-2006, 08:21 PM
and all this time you have not said a word. you are a wonderful and brave and giving soul. I send you and your family love and prayers for whatever may be. i pray that you all find peace in it and please know that you are loved.peace
Noel

Irish Beth
08-01-2006, 05:11 AM
My sister-in-law passed away Sunday morning about 3AM - thanks for all the prayers and support - they were more of a comfort than you can imagine.

lucille
08-01-2006, 05:29 AM
Condolences Beth. I am so sorry to read that, but she put up a good fight. I know you will be a great comfort to your brother.

RedjackRyan
08-01-2006, 05:54 AM
Our condolences to you and your family, Beth. May your sister-in-law be granted peace.

Randy & Betty in Pa
08-01-2006, 06:21 AM
IB....

You and yours are in our prayers... Our deepest sympathy on the loss of a loved one...

Best to you...

R & B from Pa

Agnes
08-01-2006, 06:57 AM
So sorry for your loss, Beth. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Denise
08-01-2006, 08:19 AM
My condolences as well Beth. I hope you can look forward to a wonderful time with all the Rudies at the picnic. Wish I could be there to meet you!

Eva
08-01-2006, 03:32 PM
My condoleances Beth. I wish you, your brother and everyone who loved her a lot of strength.

Eva

gisli
08-01-2006, 05:37 PM
So sorry to hear this, my condolences Irish Beth. My heart and prayers go to you. Take care.

hoops
08-02-2006, 05:44 PM
Beth, my condolences to you and your family. i am sending up prayers for all of you
peace
Noel

dragonlady
08-02-2006, 06:12 PM
So sorry to hear such sad news Beth. Our sympathies to you and your family. Big hugs from Virginia through cyber-space and in person soon.

All our love,

Di and Kat

Dar
08-09-2006, 12:15 PM
Beth, I'm just seeing this post now. I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.