:(

[diver_boy]

me and seth broke up last week.....it was best that i just move back to new jersey with my mom for the time being - things just didn't work out.

I feel kinda sad, but i have hope at the same time because i've learned a lot through this relationship...10 months in a gay relationship is like 20 years straight lol

hope everybody is doing well

huggs
chris

[Melba]

Sorry to hear it didn't work out, but it sounds like you have the right attitude. Just be true to yourself and eventually you won't feel that way about relationships......;)

[DaveM]

I'm sorry, Chris. Sometimes (well, a lot of times) it just isn't in the cards. And yes, I know how hollow and stupid those words must sound just now. You will not believe me, but they will come when you will realize you have learned from the experience and the hurt will be only a faint memory.

For now, you'll always have us, 24/7. You may have noticed that we have plenty of Rudie Power to spread around, and are great listeners besides.

All the best to you....try to look at the road ahead, not the trodden path behind.

[Gigglepottomus]

Hang in there diver_boy I know this will probably sound a bit cliche but in time things will get better.

I read this in a fortune cookie I know how that must sound but it made a lot of sense to me and I hope it will to you

"Make the most of what comes and the best of what goes."

[NinasSpaceChild]

Sorry to hear you're going through all that Chris. Good luck and *hugs*.

I'm not having the easiest of times myself at the moment so can understand what you must be feeling.

Keep your chin up, believe in yourself, and look to the future.

Dylan.

[david uk]

so sorry to hear that Chris.

as you know you have a lot of friends here in Janisland so shout if you need support.

big hugs from the uk

david x

[Denise]

A relationship breakup is a tough thing - no matter the circumstances... I wish you much happiness to come in the future....

[RedjackRyan]

Sorry to hear it, Chris. Breaking up is never easy.. I'm sure that you'll find your life-mate soon enough and in the meantime you have a huge group of friends right here to lean on.

[AceOn6]

(((Diver Boy)))
Hang in there. We're here for you.

[ponytail]

Sorry to hear of the break-up. I've been through it many times myself -- before I met Dave (who I've been with now for 28 years) I had a lot of "little" relationships that lasted ten months, six months, a year --and they seemed anything but "little" at the time. Know that when you find the right person, and you look back on them, they'll seem "little" to you, too. Meanwhile, we're all here to support you. You're in my prayers.

[Dar]

I feel kinda sad, but i have hope at the same time because i've learned a lot through this relationship...10 months in a gay relationship is like 20 years straight

I absolutely believe that you take what you learn in each relationship and it becomes like a stepping stone to the next and so on until you find THE ONE.
Some folks need more stones than others to get to their goal, others only a few, and still others may rest on the stone they think is THE ONE and be perfectly happy. Personally I did that for 10 years, than that stone crumbled and I REALLY found the one. When you do, you suddenly realize all that was missing, often things you didn't realize you missed until you have them. Enjoy the journey in the meantime. I hope you guys can stay friends.

There's a lid for every pot as the saying goes.

[hoops]

i'M SORRY MY FRIEND THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS WITH YOU

[Agnes]

Sorry to hear that, db. Take care of yourself and know we're here for you.